Here are a few steps to take:
1. Avoid all forms of distractions during your youth; success should be your only goal. In fact, don't start dating until you are twenty-four or twenty-five, unless you achieve success before then.
2. Either remain celibate or use very effective contraceptives to avoid pregnancy. No matter what you do, try as much as possible to prevent unplanned pregnancies.
3. Don’t allow anyone to pressure you; wait until you are established and successful enough to get married.
Here are a few disadvantages of rushing into marriage as a woman:
1. While you should be comfortably managing your responsibilities, you will end up viewing them as burdens.
2. Your children will not receive the best care.
3. Your husband might perceive you as a burden.